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Malicious emails, strained relationships 5 months, 1 week ago #1148

My wife has been receiving malicious emails accusing me of having an extramarital affair. I suspect the emails are from a coworker. I have already reported the incident to our HR director. I have not been unfaithful but my wife seems to believe the accusations (she has a lot on her mind lately and the emails were the last straw). Our relationship has been severely strained and she has threatened to send transcripts of my emails and texts with my female coworkers to our management. There is nothing to prove but I am afraid of my reputation being damaged before my colleagues and business partners. My livelihood is threatened. She says she can no longer help me with our joint obligations like the car and our home rental. I am prepared for the worst and getting ready for a single parent scenario. We've been married for 22 years. Is there a way I can prevent her from doing this? It is stressful and I am trying my best to keep calm. Baka kung ano pa magawa ko. I just need her to agree to a dialog (neutral venue) to hear my side - kahit yun na lang. I tried reasoning, begging her to keep an open mind and, even crying but to no avail. Malaki ang galit nya na di ko alam kung saan galing. What are my legal options? Can she be compelled to dialog. I can't do it myself. Salamat.

I have only told three people about the emails - our HR director (to red flag the incident) and two of my closest friends. Ayoko munang sabihin sa iba because I don;t want my wife to be put in a bad light, especially that there is really nothing to prove. Mapapahiya po siya talaga. Our youngest is asking me why her mom is behaving in such a manner (nakakahalata). Our home is being threatened. Please help. Thank you so much.

Re:Malicious emails, strained relationships 5 months ago #1149

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I'm so sorry to hear all these events transpiring especially now that it's the Christmas season. I think the best thing to do is to go the extra mile and appeal to her good side. Try to go to marriage counseling. Ask her even if it's the last thing you will do together. You have been married for 22 years and I guess it's not too much to ask to work on the strained relationship with everything you both have. I believe that love is never lost, there just failure to exercise it. Try to rekindle the old flame.

However, when worse comes to worst, I think you can mention her some legal consequences when she decides to leave the family home without severance of the marital relationship legally. One consequence is that she will be guilty of abandonment and will not then be entitled to support.
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