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I have a gay officemate harassing me. Pls help!
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I have a gay officemate harassing me. Pls help! 1 year, 5 months ago #347

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I have a problem about dun s officemate ko, bading po sia at ginugulo nia ako kung bkit nia ako ginugulo dhil pnplabas nia n me utang ako s knya which is ung kne claim niang utang sken e bigay po nia indecent kumbaga. Before po nun nsapak ko po sia during office hours break time po nun dhil s subrang pangungulit nia sken, buti nlng at nkailag at mahina lng nman. Ngkasundo kme s harap ng mga supervisors n bbyran ko ung utang n cnsabe nia kpalit s pgtigil niang pangungulet sken which is d po ngyare patuloy nia p din akong ginugulo. Masama po loob ko dhil cncngil nia ako s mga bnigay nia sken. Me xpiration po ung kasulatan nmen about dun s utang at xpired n po sia. Hindi nia p din ako tnigilan hangang ngaun ano po b dpat kung gawen? sana po mtulungan nio po ako naapektuhan n po trabaho ko at nccra n po pangalan ko dhil po dun s utang n un,kya ko nman po siang byran kya lng apektado n po tlga ako pati s office kalat n po ung mga pannira nia sken. Nkasave po lhat ng txt nia sken bnblack mail nia din po ako pra makuha nia ung gusto nia sken sexual at pra mapasunod nia ako. Nhhirapan na po kc ako. Sbe p daw po ng management pd daw po akong tangalin dhil daw s assault n gnawa ko pero matagal n po un, gusto nia ding phold s accounting ung sahod ko for this cut-off. Pls help me. anu po dapat kong ikaso s knya at mttngal po kaya ako kumpnya? Regular employee po ako.Sna po mtulungan niu ko,
Salamat.

Re:I have a gay officemate harassing me. Pls help! 1 year, 4 months ago #349

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Pls help..any advise pls?

Re:I have a gay officemate harassing me. Pls help! 1 year, 4 months ago #355

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This is probably off topic on this site...

I am sorry I can't read all, the Google translation don't recognize your text

You are probably a good looking guy, or/and nice person. Take it as a compliment.

But you ask about advice..

Talk with him!

If you know he is gay, he is probably openly so. This make things easy, because you don't have to discuss his being gay. At a quiet moment, bring him a coffee, and discuss the problem. No fight, just quiet talk.
Tell him that you don't like his advances and comments.

I wonder how you would react if it was a female co-worker, constantly leaning over showing her breasts?

I just tell you that his being gay has little to do with it, but his attitude.

Good luck, and a happy new year!
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